We're not working on Saturday???

Every month we always, ALWAYS, work either the 3rd or 4th Saturday. We used to get 2 comp days off for working the Saturday but, the past few months we've gotten paid overtime for it. So, knowing that we were supposed to work this Saturday, I had already gotten my little brain working on how I was gonna spend that extra cash. But nooooo, the boss called us together yesterday and told us we were gonna be off today. Dang, dang, dang!!!!! There goes my little spending spree! It won't be a total loss though. One of my co-workers convinced the boss that she had some things that absolutely HAD to be done before Monday (actually, it's a butt load of stuff). So, she and I will be working 2 - 3 hours today!! Whoo hoo!!!! It won't be a lot but it's a little extra! Nothing wrong with that!!

And so it begins...Part trois

Well, I did it. I went to the attorney's office this afternoon and signed the papers to start the divorce. I also asked for a restraining order. I know that once he gets served with the papers he's going to be driving me crazy calling and trying to get me to agree to all kinds of crazy conditions. I just can't handle it. I DON"T want to talk to him EVER AGAIN!!! Just another day in the life!!

And so it begins...Part deux

I haven't signed the divorce papers at my attorney's yet. We just started the process when I was there last Wednesday. His secretary called me on Friday and said I could come down and sign them after work but, I had to pick my son up at college. So, I'll be going down there Monday afternoon. I'll be SO glad when this is over.

And so it begins...

Well, I went to see my attorney yesterday and will sign the papers to start the divorce on Wednesday. I don't really know how I feel right now. I'm a little scared because all my savings are now gone. I didn't really have a choice, though. I have to get out of this marriage. I haven't felt free in a long, long time. I know it's going to be ugly. My husband will see to that. He just wants to hurt me as much as he can. I don't believe he ever really loved me. He couldn't have put me through the things he did and hurt me so much if he had really cared. Just let this end. Please!!!!

I'm still here!

I've been kind of quiet the past couple of weeks. I have a lot on my mind right now. I'm going to see my divorce attorney tomorrow and it's kind of scary. Not knowing what the future holds has never been easy but this is really serious business. I don't know how my estranged husband will react. He's not exactly what you'd call stable. Wish me luck. I'm sure going to need it.